Interesting what a little ego-Googling will dig up. Just found this article in which I’m quoted from a CNN Living query I answered a while back. The article deals with so-called “well-meaning meddlers” - those folks who just have to give you unsolicited advice. The full article is here, but here’s my bit:
Well-meaning meddlers are one thing, but sometimes advice-givers can come across as just plain rude. Dani Nordin, 32, a Web and graphic designer in Watertown, Massachusetts, is still fuming about the “advice” she received from a former boyfriend.
“A few years ago, I had lost a considerable amount of weight - over 40 pounds - and had recently started dating a guy who lived in my building,” explains Nordin. “I stopped by his apartment one night wearing my then-favorite outfit. Just as I was thinking I was all cute, he says, ‘Can I tell you something? Don’t take this the wrong way, but you would have the most amazing body if you just lost 10 or 15 pounds.’ As he’s hugging me, he says this. I was devastated, and ended up telling him off.”
She broke up with him soon after.
The full article is here. Interesting what you find if you chat with people often enough.